Having relationships, especially fruitful relationships, is one of the desires of every human. We all strive to have relationships that are at least perfect, and in the end make us feel complete. Even though we strive to do so, at times things do not work out as desired and these relationships end up in break ups, which in most cases gets people worked up and causes them to make decisions that are costly to their lives. The good thing about breaking up is that if one chooses to follow certain laid out plans, one can manage to get their better half back in the relationship and this time even more committed than before. You may ask what the plan is. That plan is found in the Magic of Making up book by T.W Jackson. In my Magic of Making Up review, I will be discussing the book briefly.
To begin with, the book has been clearly written and arranged into eight chapters. Each of these chapters have been summarized in details concerning issues starting from what may lead to problems in the relationship to ways that you can solve the problems thus making up with your ex. The author has designed certain steps that are mandatory for you to understand so as to assist in the quest of making up with your lover or ex. Some of these mandatory steps include firstly identifying what resulted in the break up, taking the time to ensure that before you proceed with trying to win your ex back that your emotions are stable as this will help you not look desperate and if you notice that the relationship cannot be salvaged, you move on with your life.
The good thing with this book is that the author has taken the time to delve into details for every step offered. Unlike other relationship materials where you are only given tips on how to go about issues, here the author goes the extra mile of even showing you how to proceed with the quest by answering questions such as how to proceed, when to do so, what to say and even what to do in case things turn out differently. With such guidance given, it makes it easy to apply the steps as you have an understanding of what is involved.
Furthermore, in assisting you to make up with your ex, the author makes a point of also helping you to move on if the steps do not work out to your advantage. Such a consideration by the author makes the book a must read as there are no hang ups with the book.
When it comes to making up, timing is of essence. Another great thing is that you are also informed of the challenges that you may face and how to deal with them when in the process of making up. You are also warned against revisiting past issues as this may worsen the situation.
In conclusion, all the steps given in the book are realistic as they are applicable and with time they have been noted to produce positive results.