TW Jackson’s Magic of Making Up presents a procedure to use to live through your break up, predict, and control the behavior of your ex and eventually win her/him back. The author guides you on how to manage your break up, with principles developed using past experiences. You will be able to manipulate the behavior of your ex through your own actions. The book outlines a procedure to use to lead your ex through a plan for reconciliation. The book enumerates the actions work and to avoid because they may only push your ex farther away. You will know the mistakes you have made since the break up and how to reverse them.
Chapters 1 and 2 give an analysis of relationships and lead you to have an in-depth analysis of yourself, your ex, the relationship and whether you have made the right decisions so far or not. You will be made to reinvent your personality and calm your emotions. This section stresses the importance of reinventing your personality as means of improving your image in the view of your ex. Your emotional state is basic to improving your image because you must not appear desperate to your ex. The section provides special techniques to overcome your depression and develop confidence to proceed with the plan to win the love of your ex. Do not skip this section even if you are not comfortable with examining your own emotions. A special technique for rebuilding your confidence is presented.
Chapters 3 and 4 show you how to reinvent yourself to appear new to your ex. This section gives you tips that will make you a new person, at least new enough to create a slight interest in your ex. Many people may not be comfortable with this section especially if you have not developed enough confidence. You are requested to perform some things that may not be comfortable. Try to complete the tasks since they help you build your confidence in small steps. At the end of the Chapter 4 your new confidence will begin to be noticeable to your ex.
Chapters 5 and 6 have proved to be very popular with many readers probably because it presents step-by-step detailed game plan for winning back your ex. It includes even small details such as how to make the initial phone call. It shows how to gain the trust and how to manipulate the emotions of your ex to rebuild the bond. The section even provides tips and alternative plans to use when your ex rebuts your moves.
Chapters 7 and 8 explain how to manage the new relationship after getting back together. This section shows how to avoid developing new friction especially during the first few months of starting to live together again. This section gives tips on how to avoid running into the same arguments again. You are shown how keep focused in building your future together and avoid letting the past come in between. You are given techniques to use to keep the relationship fresh and overcome new problems.